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• TRANSFORM CONSTANT CONFLICT into deep understanding - using a proven no-BS approach that gets to the root of your issues FAST.
• REDISCOVER the passion and intimacy you thought was lost forever (I help couples have great sex again - and yes, we'll talk about that too.)
• Experience what it feels like to be truly HEARD and UNDERSTOOD by your partner again
• Get ABSOLUTE CLARITY on your relationship's future in just ONE session - no more wasting time and money wondering "is this working?

What Other Clients Are Saying:

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What Happens Next?

1.  Get in touch

2. Receive a response within 24 hours

3. Show up for your free 30-minute video consultation

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Learn How It Works

I have gone to quite a few therapists during various stages of my life. Jeff has by far, been the most relatable, realistic & effective therapist I’ve ever seen. I thank God for having found Jeff a few years ago. For, with his counseling, I have survived through the most traumatic experiences... e.g. intense marital issues, family alcoholism, and the most tragic death of my child. His technique is unique in that he not only looks you in the eyes while listening (vs. a notebook), but also he responds with honesty & enthusiastic energy. I’ve personally learned that finding a good therapist is as important as finding a good physician & legal counsel. For these reasons, I don’t hesitate to personally refer him to family & friends. 

— Dallas – Evansville, IN

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Jeff helped me through one of the most challenging phases in my life. He’s the counselor who tells you what you want to hear, even when it’s difficult to hear what he has to say. He’s the counselor who leaves you with good work to challenge you to grow professionally. He’s the counselor you’ll want to call a friend when you’ve reached your therapeutic goals. His approach is equal parts less tough love, empowerment, self-worth and scientific based information which makes his sessions interesting, challenging, heartbreaking at times in all the right ways, and completely worth the time. I’ve learned so much from Jeff over the years and will always be thankful for the time spent in his office. I recommend him to all my friends in need."

— Jim – Fischer, IN

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Jeff was highly recommended by a close family member who's daughter benefited greatly from his services. Jeff created a bond with my troubled son that was by far the best therapist he ever heard during 8+ years in therapy with multiple therapists. Jeff gained my son's trust and he fully opened up to him about some very troubling issues. I would absolutely recommend Jeff!"

— Holly – Carmel, IN

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is the first call really free?

Yes. Our first conversation is 100% free, no strings attached. If we decide we're not a good fit, you don't owe me a thing.

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How long does it take to see results?

Most couples start feeling relief and traction within the first two sessions. My goal isn’t to keep you in therapy forever — it’s to get you out of crisis and into connection, fast. From there we'll be refining skills and figuing out how you want to leverage this amazing partnership to create the life you love. 

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What if we've already tried therapy?

Perfect. That means you’ve already invested — and you’re ready for something that actually works.  I promise you haven't tried therapy like this. My approach is different: no passive listening, no generic advice. Just clear insight and a direct plan for change.

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Do you work with couples who’ve experienced infidelity?

All the time. Betrayal doesn’t have to be the end. With the right support, it can actually become the turning point — if both partners are willing to do the work.

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Do you work with religious couples?

Yes. I grew up in the church. I understand the unique challenges and expectations faith-based couples face. We’ll talk about the real stuff — honestly and with respect.

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Will you take sides?

No. I’ll take the side of your marriage. That means I’ll challenge both of you — with compassion, honesty, and zero tolerance for blame games.

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How The Work Unfolds

You’re stuck in survival mode –  same fights, no progress, and the sinking feeling that love might not be enough.

In the first phase we cut through the noise. No vague talk, no months of “exploration.” 

You’ll finally get real answers about what’s happening in your marriage — and whether it can be saved. 

This isn’t therapy as usual. It’s a breakthrough.

 You want intimacy, trust, and a partnership that actually feels alive.

We'll build that.

You'll get customized tools, a clear map, and an ally who won’t flinch when it gets hard. 

No more drifting. No more walking on eggshells.

The spark returns. You’re not just surviving your marriage  you’re in it together, strong, connected, and on fire for what’s next.

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Phase 1: 

The Wake Up Call

Phase 2: 

The Pattern Breaker

Phase 3: 

The Reset

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Most couples aren’t failing for lack of effort –  they’re failing because they’re stuck in invisible patterns no one ever taught them how to break.

We'll uncover what’s driving the disconnection. We go where others won’t – sex, money, power, resentment – and name what needs naming. 

We don’t waste time on surface “communication tools.” 

We rewire the system at the root.

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Why Most Marriages Fail — And Why Yours Doesn’t Have To

Let’s cut through the noise.

After 25 years of working with couples, I can tell you this: the usual explanations — “communication issues,” “lack of commitment,” “grew apart” — don’t even scratch the surface.

I’ve sat across from smart, loving, well-intentioned people watching their marriage unravel — and it’s never because they didn’t try hard enough.

It’s the wife who’s silently stopped believing her husband will ever get her.

It’s the husband who’s exhausted from walking on eggshells.

Two people caught in a cycle of hurt, doing everything they think they should… and watching it only get worse.

They read the books. Try the scripts. Have the heart-to-hearts. 

But no one tells them the truth:

• Biting your tongue at dinner isn’t “keeping the peace.” It’s building a wall of silence.

• Reworded arguments in therapy don’t fix the wound — they just sound prettier.

• And “love should be enough” is the most dangerous myth of all.

Here’s the truth:

Every toxic pattern can be broken.

I’ve seen couples come back from betrayal, addiction, even separation — not with fluff or feel-good advice, but with someone finally showing them what’s really going on and exactly how to fix it.

That’s what I do.

I don’t ask how you feel — I show you what’s driving the pain, why it’s happening, and how to change it. Fast. 

For real.

Why Work With Me:

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Let’s be honest — most marriage counseling doesn’t work fast enough. You sit through months of “How does that make you feel?” while your marriage keeps slipping away.

That’s not what I do.

I’m not here to validate your feelings and send you home with homework. I’m here to save your marriage.

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Here’s how I’m different:

• I’m direct.  I’ll tell you the truth, even when it’s uncomfortable — because clarity is the first step toward change.
• I’ve lived it.  I’ve been through divorce. I know the pain. I also know the path back — and I’ve helped thousands walk it.
• I get results — fast. Most of my couples feel major shifts within the first few sessions. No dragging it out. No guesswork.
• I go deep. We’ll talk about everything — sex, power, resentment, money, trust. The stuff that actually matters.
• I won’t waste your time.  If your marriage can’t be saved, I’ll tell you. If it can, I’ll show you how

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You’re not here because you want therapy. You’re here because you want your marriage back.

I’m here to help you get it.